Hello guys first time Inthis bloge i have a guest columnist heRelationship if goes well may make you optimistic whole ur life. Bad relationship may equally depress u too.No relationship at all makes u hungry.
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12 Solutions by which u can keep a Man Dating,Strengthen your Relationships and choose perfect guy.
1. Do youknow how to be just friends?
Most people use dating as a chance to get to know each other. They spend time hanging out, sharing each other’s interests, doing him little favors, admiring his accomplishments, planning activities together: All this builds a strong friendship. The time comes when you know you can rely on each other, when you reach the stage of warm and caring friendship and when you value the time spent together. Then you’re ready to take the relationship to the next level.
2. Do you expect too much of him?
This man is as uncertain as you are. He’s holding back to take the next step until he knows you better. Of course, he is afraid of rejection, as we all are. Maybe he thinks you’re out of his league. Perhaps he needs more encouragement to take the first step. You’ll never know, if you don’t give him a chance to know you better.
3.Do you know what you really want in a man?
It’s time to be selective about your perfect man. Make a list of all the important beliefs, lifestyle and aspirations you would like your man to have. Spirituality, children, job, money, ethics, background, family, interests, appearance, attentiveness and personality are all important. Don’t go crazy over a “bad boy” and then expect him to go to a temple with you every Saturday.
4. Do you take care of yourself?
Even in this new millennium, a man looks at the woman as the caretaker. He wants to be looked after. If you neglect yourself, can he expect you to look after him? Remember your health, your happiness and your life agenda are important. Build a cocoon of comfort and safety in your life, where there’s room for the right man. Value yourself, and others will value you, too.
5. Do you talk too much?
Maybe you could run circles around the fast-talking auctioneer in the television commercial. Many women don’t realize how shallow and boring their gossip seems to a man. You probably started repeating yourself after the first hour of conversation, and you’re getting boring, too. Take your turn listening to others. You are likely to learn a great deal. Leave your cell phone turned off, so you can practice being quiet. Let yourself be calm and still. It will attract men to you. The gentle art of listening will make you a better date.
6.Are you beautiful enough?
You probably aren’t cover girl material, because few of us are. And it’s likely you don’t have perfect teeth, skin or hair, because most of us don’t. But are you well-groomed? That’s something that’s under your control. Are you nicely dressed, and do you smell good? Your warm, inviting smile immediately moves you two points closer to a 10. Your personality, your confidence and your ability to make him feel good about himself will go a long way to creating the aura of beauty.
7.Do you trust him?
It’s good to steer away from a man when your instincts tell you he can’t be trusted. But if it’s you yourself who has a fear of intimacy, who’s reluctant to put your trust in any man, then it’s time to rebuild your inner confidence before you reach out to a man.
8.Do you want what you can’t have?
Maybe your ideal man is a movie star look-alike with styled hair, designer suits and a luxury car. Do you have your heart set on a number 10, no matter what’s underneath his window dressing? Because your mind is made up, you reject everyone else. Consider modifying your expectations. Guys who aren’t flashy or well-off can be guys who are capable of love and caring.
9.Do you change your mind all the time?
Are you indecisive about dating? Look deep into your heart for your best intentions. Be less impulsive about dating. Set a goal and stick to it. The next man who comes along might not work out, but the man standing right in front of you could be your heart’s desire.
10.Do you cheat and lie?
He’s caught you lying about your past, your job, and what you did last night. He’s thinking, “If she lies now when I barely know her, what else will I find out about her if I look harder?” Clean up your act and you won’t be trapped into lies. Being true to your friends, and honest in your dating relationship will keep a man around longer. If you’re running around behind his back, badmouthing him to your friends, betraying the other men you date, why would he want to date you? Your reputation is leaving a bad taste in everyone’s mouth.
11.Do you have a bad attitude?
Do you think that everyone is out to get you? Do you dislike the people in your life? Do you put the blame on other people? Does everything always going wrong? Are you the pessimist who expects the worst of everyone? Do you criticize your friends and your enemies? Is your language vulgar? If you could listen to your thoughts for an hour, would you like yourself? No! Well, he doesn’t like it either. Your attitude is a real downer, and no guy enjoys that. Take the high road instead. Practice "positivity," the art of looking at the bright side of life. Give your issues a rest. Find the good in people whenever you can. He thinks your bad attitude spoils the date. He doesn’t want to be part of your world.
12.Are you are too good for him?
Well, of course you are! It happens all the time. Enthusiastic, loving, intelligent woman meets slacker man. But don’t judge him at first sight. Consider for a moment that his good qualities might be quite different from yours. He might bring to the date the very things you yourself lack.

With these attributes, he could be your perfect complement, the piece that completes the jigsaw puzzle. By making snap judgments, you’ll miss out on the best life has to offer, a true abiding romance with your soul mate. For feedbacks mail at . All details about its originality would be mentioned in private .I hope life brings you much success. I wish you a very happy day.
Shankar Bhattarai